{"id":1421,"date":"2014-10-02T22:54:04","date_gmt":"2014-10-03T03:54:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bizwomenrock.com\/?p=1421"},"modified":"2017-05-21T21:53:23","modified_gmt":"2017-05-22T02:53:23","slug":"sorry-break-kid-hard-truths-swallow-business","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bizwomenrock.com\/beta\/sorry-break-kid-hard-truths-swallow-business\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorry to Break It To You, Kid: Hard Truths To Swallow About Business"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Business is far from unicorns and lollipops.\u00a0 We may brag about our freedom from the rat race, our ability to be our own bosses and having a vehicle for living out our passions, but underneath it all, running a business can be tough and unforgiving at times. Is it worth it? Of course! But unless we\u2019re honest about some of the \u201cugly truths,\u201d we can\u2019t truly appreciate just how amazing and robust this game called business is! So, here we go\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>1. There will always be someone in your life who criticizes you.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>And despite your best efforts to block yourself from them, they&#8217;re here to stay.\u00a0 Perhaps this is a family member, a spouse, a client or a friend.\u00a0 How you deal with this person and their criticism is what matters.\u00a0 You have three choices.\u00a0 You can A) Get pissed off and fight back, defending your actions on every attack, or B) Remove your ego long enough to listen to their feedback and keep your eyes on your vision.\u00a0 Take what you like, implement changes and leave what you don&#8217;t like, or C) Get rid of them in your life.\u00a0 Not always recommended for those closest to you, but still an option.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>2. You will not get credit for the extra hours you put in, so don&#8217;t expect it.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re <em>expected<\/em> to over perform, over deliver and make it all happen. \u00a0(And you&#8217;re probably also expected to manage the kids, the finances, the household, your intimate relationship, your family and friends and your physical health).\u00a0 Suck it up.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re in this for the praise and accolades, ya ain&#8217;t gonna like this ride called entrepreneurialism.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">3. Working harder does not equal more success.<\/span> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In corporate, the more hours you work, the more you get paid.\u00a0 In your own business, the more hours you work, the more hours you work (and the closer you are to burnout).\u00a0 The key to true business success is leverage.\u00a0 Leverage the people and talents around you.\u00a0 Leverage your knowledge.\u00a0 Leverage your connections.\u00a0 Leverage the hell out of everything you&#8217;ve got so that you can work <em>smart<\/em>, not hard.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>4. Not everyone is going to like you.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care how adorable and kind and big-hearted you are, there are going to be people who simply do not like you.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t take this personally.\u00a0 I read somewhere that\u00a0<em>it&#8217;s none of my business what other people think about me<\/em>.\u00a0 Quit trying to please everyone and stay true to your brand and your business.\u00a0 And when you screw up and someone doesn&#8217;t like you because of it, learn from it and move on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">5. You <em>will<\/em>\u00a0fail.\u00a0 Miserably.\u00a0 Over and over again.\u00a0<\/span> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Get used to it and quit beating yourself up for it.\u00a0 Failing is <em>good<\/em>.\u00a0 Failures teach you, mold you and guide you.\u00a0 Embrace them!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>6. You have to believe the impossible is possible for this whole thing to work.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You have to believe that money will come in when there is none.\u00a0 You have to believe that you can manage the roles of business owner, mother, father, sister, husband, wife, nephew, dog owner and yard-cleaner when just thinking about all those roles makes your head spin.\u00a0 You have to believe that you can change the world with what you&#8217;re bringing to the table! And when you believe\u2026it all clicks!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>The great news about these truths is that once you own them, life as an entrepreneur becomes a whole lot easier!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Business is far from unicorns and lollipops.\u00a0 We may brag about our freedom from the rat race, our ability to be our own bosses and having a vehicle for living out our passions, but underneath it all, running a business can be tough and unforgiving at times. Is it worth it? Of course! 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