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Every woman has her own definition of success. But there are certain traits that most successful women share.<\/p>\n

I spend a good part of my work day reading and writing about women who have achieved great things — and I make it a point to surround myself with women who are well on their way to doing so.<\/p>\n

Here are 12 things I’ve learned that successful women do differently:<\/p>\n

1. They are deeply passionate about what they do.<\/strong>
\n“Without passion, all the skill in the world won’t lift you above craft,” wrote dancer Twyla Tharp<\/a> in her book, The Creative Habit<\/em>. If you don’t love what you do, you’re probably not going to be motivated to go above and beyond, to innovate and to stand out in the workplace. But if you’re passionate about your career, it will make putting time and effort into it pleasurable, not a chore.<\/p>\n

2. They don’t expect perfection — of themselves or those around them.<\/strong>
\nResearch has shown<\/a> that wasting time and energy trying to be “perfect” only leads to unhappiness. Successful women know that that they can’t do everything well all the time. Beating yourself up for your perceived flaws will only dampen your abilities at work, not to mention your mental health. “We each, if we’re lucky, will have our chance to leave a mark on the world, but we are trying too hard to be perfect,” wrote Barnard president Debora Spar<\/a> in an op-ed for Glamour magazine. “So don’t emulate Wonder Woman; think about what’s wonderful to you instead. Then boldly, audaciously, joyfully, leave the rest behind.”<\/p>\n

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3. Often, they become the boss.<\/strong>
\nMany successful women have figured out that if you’re the boss, you can set your own rules. As editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan Joanna Coles said<\/a> at the Third Metric Conference in June: “The higher you go in a corporation, the easier it is … The truth is you get more control.” And when you’re in control, you have the ability to create a more sane, happy and balanced workplace for yourself and your employees.<\/p>\n

4. They marry well — or not at all.<\/strong>
\nSuccessful women know the value of a true partnership. As Sheryl Sandberg observed<\/a>in Lean In<\/em>: “I don\u2019t know of a single woman in a leadership position whose life partner is not fully — and I mean fully — supportive of her career.” And many successful women forgo marriage all together. Despite not being wed, women like Oprah Winfrey, Condoleezza Rice and Diane Keaton<\/a> seem to be doing just fine.<\/p>\n

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